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About Your Sign...
The Cancerian character is the least
clear-cut of all those associated with the
signs of the zodiac. It can range from the
timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most
brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be
found through the whole range of human
activity. It is a fundamentally conservative
and home-loving nature, appreciating the
nest like quality of a secure base to which
the male can retire when he needs a respite
from the stresses of life, and in which the
Cancerian woman can exercise her strong
maternal instincts. The latter tends to like
and to have a large family. `Nest like' is
an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian
home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the
dark, mysterious but comfortable type of
house which has something of the air of a
den about it, a place which belongs to the
family rather than existing as a showcase to
impress visitors.
That is not to say that the Cancerian is
unsociable, just that for them there is a
time to socialize and a time to be solitary,
and this is part of the apparent
contradiction in their nature. Outwardly
they can appear formidable - thick-skinned,
unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately
tenacious, purposeful, energetic, shrewd,
intuitive and wise, sometimes with a
philosophical profundity of thought verging
on inspiration. Their intimates, however,
may see a very different character, one with
a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to
other people, especially those they love.
They are able to identify with the
situations of others because of the keenness
of their imaginations. They are often
over-imaginative and prone to fantasy,
sometimes trying to shape their lives to fit
some romantic ideal. They are appreciative
of art and literature, and especially of
drama, where the spectacle and ebb and flow
of action and feeling particularly excite
them. They may themselves possess
considerable literary, artistic or
oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and
talent for mimicry can sometimes give them
success on the stage, though their tendency
to be emotional may make them overact.
Interestingly - because they give the
impression of being down-to-earth - they are
often fascinated by the occult and are more
open to psychic influence than the average.
If they can reconcile the personal conflict
of their urge to be outgoing with the
reserve that causes them to withdraw into
themselves, then at best they can inspire a
generation, especially the youthful part of
it, by their idealism. A job in which they
can express this, and in which they can do
well, would be as a leader in a youth
organization.
In their personal relationships they are
mentally a mixture of toughness and
softness, often emotional and romantic to
the point of sentimentality in their
fantasies; but in real life and in marriage,
their loving is not so sentimental but
tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs
(and they may do so, for the male in
particular is open to sensual stimulation),
their first loyalty remains to spouse and
family, of whom they regard themselves as
the protector. Both the Cancerian man and
woman love unreservedly, giving much and
asking little in return - in fact, one of
the most important lessons they have to
learn is how to receive gracefully. They are
too easily influenced by those they love and
admire, and swayed by the emotion of the
moment. They are also loyal friends, the
negative side of their faithfulness being
clannishness, the narrow patriotism of "my
country right or wrong"; and closing ranks
in suspicion and coldness toward outsiders. |